Yup, end-of-year post--the obligatory blog post that talks about the review of the last year & what the hopes (resolutions) are for the New Year. The events of 2012 for me & my family (both blood & blended) have been quite tumultuous to say the least. From getting a house ready to sell, to selling, to moving in together--2012 was a very big year for all of us. Adjustments all around--we are still figuring this thing out. But over all it has been a good decision & as my son said, he is used to his "step" sisters being at the house & that when they aren't, it feels weird. Good--that is what we're working towards.
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winter at the beach |
A good example is what all of us did a few days ago (yikes, this vaycay has flown!). We went to the beach for a few days. Not so big a deal when written like this but we had 11 people at the beach! BFF(J) & family, us (blended, less one skid), & two friends of skids. I think it was a good time for everyone & we managed to fit all 11 of us around the table for a "family" meal. And we all experienced the beach in the winter--some of us a little more than others--BFF(J)'s hubby decided that he had to wade up to his knees in the water---brrrr! Like I said--this is an example when things work in the new family--there are many other examples when things don't quite, but hopefully there will be less & less of that into 2013....
So 2013....
My hope for us is that we continue to grow together as a family & that the bumps along the way get less & less bumpy....
A Happy & Healthy New Year to ALL!!
Been quite a year for me--an incredible one. I wrote last year how I thought that 2010 was going to be a big one--I was right. So here's to the end of a great year for me, & my kid & on to another forward-thinking & moving year. A top ten of 2010 in no particular order:
1. My son's Bar Mitzvah
2. Great sailing & racing on the Chesapeake
3. Making some incredible new friends
4. Seeing Spoon twice
5. Seeing great music
6. Wine tasting with the BFFs
7. Raven's game
8. Much more laughter than tears
9. January 2010
10. Xing Fu
There are many more events, people, examples, etc., but yes, an incredible year and mostly a positive one--lucky me.
Resolutions? Continue working to become a better mom, friend, daughter, sister, girlfriend, aunt; a better me. And looking forward to a great 2011!
Happy New Year to all!