If I Could Say...I Would Say

That whatever issues there are, some people need to grow the F up.  At some point communication with the parent of your child helps to facilitate a better relationship with that child in the long run--avoidance is just cowardice.  Stop snooping & man up!   Ultimately it is your loss & here I am trying to help by suggesting that having a relationship with the other parent is in your best interest.  If I despised you so much would I be remotely interested in trying to encourage interaction?  Nope!   I have no respect for you.  'Nuff said.